I’m a novice rock climber. I recall my last outdoor climb at the Gunks last summer. The final part of a fairly arduous climb required me to balance with the tips of my toes on a tiny ledge, while reaching around a blind corner for a handhold. To reach the handhold, I needed to lean out over a huge open gap and I wasn’t sure if my arm was long enough. I was properly tied with the safety ropes, but I knew that if I missed the handhold or if my toes slipped on that tiny ledge, I would fall and all that effort I had put into climbing up there would go to waste. As the seconds inched by, I got increasingly tired and knew that I either had to go for it or give up. Finally, with a small sigh, I leaned out. It was too far. I was going to slip. Then miraculously, my body instinctively adjusted itself in this strange new spider-like position. Who knew it was capable of doing that. I regained my balance and managed to grab on. I was on my way once again.
One way to get out of the “Land of In Between” is to put yourself out there – to openly declare “Yes, this is who I want to be. I’m not there yet, but that’s where I want to get to”.
I did this the other day (in a non-rock climbing scenario) and it felt really scary because once again, I had no idea how I was going to get there and if I would make it.
Then a funny thing happened. Just like that day upon the ledge, once I took the leap I suddenly felt a lot more supported. Almost miraculously, people around me began to emerge to tell me that they understood what I wanted to do and were ready to help when I needed it.
So the next time the opportunity presents itself, I know what I’ll do. Jump.